Obituary

IMG_8100Tate Timothy Jacobson returned to his Heavenly Father Thursday, April 11, 2013 in West Jordan, Utah.
Tate was born October 18th, 2011 in Salt Lake City, Utah the son of Travis and Brandi Jacobson.
While it seems that 18 months was far too short of a time to be with our sweet Tate, he packed that 18 months full of love and laughter. Tate was born with Moebius Syndrome, a very rare syndrome that affects your facial nerves. Tate was not able to show a lot of expression, so instead of smiling he would laugh? all day long. Everybody that knew Tate fell in love with him immediately due to his constant teasing and giggles. If he wasn’t laughing, it was probably because he had you wrapped up tight in one of his hugs and kisses.
Tate was born without his left hand, but he never allowed that to slow him down. He amazed us by learning how to do things his way. Our little guy will be greatly missed, but we find comfort knowing that he will no longer have to deal with the limitations his physical body placed on him while on this Earth.
Tate loved his family and made sure that we all knew it. While he left us unexpectedly in his sleep, we can take comfort knowing he was loved by all that had the pleasure of knowing him.
Tate is survived by his parents Travis and Brandi Jacobson; sister, Lexi Jacobson; brother, Hunter Jacobson; grandparents, Tim and Bonnie Jacobson and Scott and Traci Brown; all eight of his great-grandparents; many loving aunts and uncles and many cousins that loved him unconditionally.
A celebration of Tate’s life will be held at 11 a.m on Wednesday, April 17, 2013, in the LDS Meetinghouse at 8136 South Old Bingham Highway West Jordan, UT 84088. A viewing will be held from 6-8 p.m. on Tuesday at the church as well as one and a half hours prior to the services.
Published in Deseret News on April?14,?2013

?We love our Tate and will miss him greatly. My favorite memory is of his teasing nature (he made his dad proud). When I would put a bow on my babies head he would be sure to pull it off, once when I caught him in the act he acted as if he wasn’t doing anything, but as soon as I turned away he pulled it off. Loved how much personality fit into that little body. Till we meet again Tate.
Heather Robins

Love this little guy. Jordan was reminding us tonight of the time he was doing to robot dance for Tate and Tate was laughing hysterically. Love the memories he gave us. He will be missed.
Jason Jacobson

We just love all of you so much. You are such a great family. We were so sad to hear of Tate’s passing. We will all be so excited to see him again in the eternities. May our Heavenly Father be with you always. Love, Troy, Jana and family
Jana VanDenBerghe

I am so sorry your beautiful little boy has gone to Heaven. The hearts of all families of children with Moebius around the world are with you.
Vicki McCarrell,
Pilot Grove, Missouri

Oh how we loved our little Tate, he had such a beautiful spirit, loved his hugs and love he gave back to you, he will be missed by so many, our family will not be the same, seems like a part of our heart has been taken away. Love you Tate and miss you so much. Travis and Brandi we love you and your family, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Gladys (grandma) Schoppe
Sandy, Utah

Dear Travis and Brandi and Family,?We are grateful for the opportunity to have known Tate. Despite the struggles he faced, it was clear he experienced much joy in his life because of his adoring family. I think we all felt we were in the presence of an angel when we were near him. We are so sorry for the loss of your cherished son and send our deepest condolences and love.
Bishop and Cathy Davis,
Cottonwood Heights, Utah

May The Perpetual Light Shine Upon HIm
Taylorsville, Utah

We were so sad to hear about your darling Tate passing. We only saw Tate a few times but he sure knew how to fill the room with his spirit. He was a giant in that way and you couldn’t help but feel his love and grow closer to our Heavenly Father. We love your family and express our sympathy. With lots of love and prayers.
Todd and Sheree Robinson
Cottonwood Heights, Utah

So very sad to hear about the passing of Master Tate Jacbson. Our sincere prayers are with you all during this most challenging journey of grief. Rest assured that the memories you have of him will stay with you eternally. Tate will always look down on you from his Heavenly home.
Kay Jacobs
South Africa

While you don’t know me, I have to say that little face is one of the cutest things I have ever seen. My heart aches for you and him but it is apparent he was given the best family and the best 18 months possible on this earth. May peace be with you.

What an honor it has been for Travis and Brandi to be selected by Heavenly Father to be the earthly caretakers of sweet Tate during his short life. I had no doubt from the beginning that he would be perfectly loved and supported by all of his family and extended family. I’ve ached so much for each of you over these few days but feel comforted knowing you understand, with the firmest of faith, who to turn to for the peace and strength you need. Love you!
Shannon Dallin
Naperville, Illinois

Brandi, Travis, and the whole Brown Family,
We are so sorry to hear of the passing of little Tate. We are thinking, hoping and praying for you all at this time. We pray you will find peace and comfort. We love your family and have enjoyed our friendship throughout the years,
Love, Ron and Jan Davies

Our prayers are with you as you pass through this difficult time. What a beautiful little guy. What a blessing for us to have known him if only through photos & words from his Grandma.
Love, Mat & Terri Greer

Brandi and Travis and Family,Our thoughts and prayers are with you. That little boy radiated the love you gave. What a precious soul. He will be missed by many, but will continue to influence others for good even though he isn’t with you here. Your family is loved by many, especially a loving Heavenly Father. I am sure that Tate is smiling as he looks down over you.
Diane Moore
Cottonwood Heights, Utah

To Tate’ mommy and daddy…at this point I am sure you’ve heard everything that is meant to give comfort but as we (who lost our son 2 years ago this month) there is no pain like this so there are no words that make it better. My word was and still is BREATHE that is all you are responsible for right now and probably all you are capable of doing. Take a breath, let it out if God gives you another take that. This is all you are anyone can expect you to do at this time. Remember the God who made Tate made you and he loves you like you love Tate.
Donna

Tate, you are missed so much already. I will be forever grateful for the time we shared with you on this earth. Your sweet countenance touched everyone around you. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to serve and love you. Can’t wait to see you again.
Love, Aunt Natalie

God Bless you all…what a Joy to have had 18 months with your beloved tate.
Toronto, Ontario

So sorry for the loss of your lovely boy. Our prayers and energy to you.
Rod & Sue Stone

Precious Trav & Brandi,Your son, Tate, certainly warmed hearts and helped those around him recognize what is most important in life. The Jacobson an Brown families were perfect for his progression. Tate was adored, cuddled, made to feel uniquely loved and 110% cherished.?Thank you for your tireless hours of selfless service.?You have shown your community the powerful blessings of hands-on & loving parenting. When the “going got tough, you two got going”! We are all a little better because of Tate.What a bright future lies ahead! Your Tate is broadly smilin’ at Hunter, Lexi, and his faithful parents. He’ll be the first to greet you when this life is through.Feel the peace of raising a perfect child.May Tate’s Life Celebation bring a joyous bonding to you and your family.?The Lord can be so pleased with your devotion, service, faith and goodness.FAMILY IF FOREVER,Your Aunt and Friend, Sherri
Sherri Christiansen
Park City, Utah

I am so very sorry to hear that you lost Tate in this realm but I know that Grandma Grace, Grandpa George, my Mom Irene, my Aunt Louise and all of his relatives who are on the other side will embrace him and watch over him for you.
Janice Graham
San Jose, California

Taters Loved every minute I got to play with you. Your laughter and giggling are in a permenant place in my heart. Love and prayers to your Mom, Dad, Lexi and Hunter. Thanks for letting me be a part of your life. You added a tremendous amount of joy mine.
Becca Janis

My Prayers are with all your family as you celebrate your beautiful little angels life! I found out today and my heart broke to hear the news! God bless you all! You will be in my prayers!
Love, Nikki Bath

Oh, how I will miss sweet little Tate in my music class! I will always remember Tate for his tenacity – when he wanted to bang the sticks together, he just held one under his arm and beat away with his other hand. I will remember the way the music moved him to rock to the beat. I will remember his sweet Mom that was always there to help him have fun with whatever everyone else was doing. Tate, you touched a lot of people – thanks for letting us in on your joy! Miss Sally
Sally Anderson
Kauri Sue Hamilton school, Utah

When Travis introduced himself as a new member of the team at One On One recently, he made a point of telling everyone about Tate. It was by far the most moving, heart-felt words from a parent I’ve ever heard a parent speak in describing what a special person his child is. I will never forget it. Travis, though you’ve only been at our company a short time, we hope you will feel our love and support at this time of great heartache. You and your family are in our prayers. May the Lord bless you with peace and comfort that Tate is now in the loving arms of the Savior.
Romney Williams

Grandma J is trying to engrave on my mind the many precious memories I have of Tate. I’m looking at pictures and know they just aren’t enough. I want to remember him ‘diving’ into my arms, and giving me hugs and kisses and eskimo kisses. I want to remember him ‘scooting’ across the room until we are toe to toe and then reaching up to me. I want to remember his belly laughs and his giggles. I want to hold his little nub until it gets warm. I want to watch him do the actions to itsy, bitsy spider over and over. I want to cheer and yell ‘yay’ with both arms raised into the air with him. I want to watch him clap in excitement … and look around the room to be sure everyone else claps with him. I want to hear him say Grandma and ‘hot diggity dog’. I want to watch him look in a mirror and say ‘Hunter’. Does he now know that Tate looks like Hunter? I want to squeeze his chunky little legs. I want to whisper ‘I love you’ in his little ears over and over. I want to rub his silky hair and rock him to sleep. I want to see him wave good-bye and blow endless kisses. I’m blowing you kisses now sweet little man. Thank you Travis and Brandi for being the most amazing parents ever for our special little guy. We are so blessed to know he is a part of our family forever. My heart is breaking for you as you experience this incredible loss. Lexi and Hunter are lucky to have you help them understand and remember. Thank you to everyone that is reaching out to our family in so many ways. Your love and concern is an amazing balm. Give my Grandmas some of your sweet love darling Tate. Grandma J loves you tons and tons!!!
Bonnie Jacobson (Grandma J)
Sandy, Utah

Tate will be missed so much. He brought so much joy to everyone who was able to spend any amount of time with him. We loved him because he made it impossible to do otherwise. I saw how much he loved and adored his mother and I am grateful that he let me cuddle and play with him during the short times mom was busy teaching a lesson on Sunday. It was a blessing to know Tate and I have a feeling he will continue to bless the lives of those he loves as he watches them from Heaven.
Rebecca Vazquez
West Jordan, Utah

Dear T.J. & Whitney & FAMILY..We are so very sorry for your loss. God bless all of you and your family through this time. Love
The Fitzpatrick’s/Barker
Murray, Utah

Before music class today at Kauri Sue, I told my little Sofia that maybe we would see her friend Tate there. Miss Sally broke the news about Tate’s passing and I sat there stunned. I couldn’t believe it, as he seemed so healthy the last time we saw him. Sofia and I were the only ones at class today and the entire time I couldn’t get Tate or his Mom out of my mind.My thoughts and prayers are with the Jacobson family. While we only were around Tate a few short times, he radiated love and sweetness. Rest in Peace, darling Tate! We will miss you and your sweet, caring Mom at music class.
Love, Natalie & Sofia Platt

I do not know anyone in your family but I, too, fell in love with his picture and truly felt, just from that, the spirit of a perfect angel. May God be with each of you.